Mastering Networking Events in the Startup World

We often emphasize the critical role that networking plays in the growth and success of startups. This comprehensive guide is designed for our potential and current portfolio companies and our venture fellows to provide you with practical strategies and insights on effective networking.

The aim is to help you build lasting relationships, access valuable resources, and ultimately succeed in the startup ecosystem.

Research and Preparation

Before attending any event, research the event and its participants. Identify who you want to meet and prepare accordingly. Look into their background, company history, and any relevant information that can help spark a good conversation.

Set Networking Goals

Attending a networking event without clear goals can lead to wasted time. Here are some objectives you might set:

  • Talk to 20 people and collect their information to follow up (LinkedIn, business cards, Etc.).

  • Have five in-depth conversations to build relationships.

  • Set a coffee meeting with a prospect or investor.

  • Target specific individuals you’ve been wanting to meet.

Have Some Conversation Starters Ready

Approaching a big or small group can be intimidating. With the right approach, you can join an existing conversation or start your own successfully. Ease into the evening by introducing yourself to one person who is also flying solo and looking for someone to talk to.

Ahead of time, read up on industry news and trends so you’ll be prepared to spark conversation and ask for other people's thoughts on topics that interest both of you.

Other great networking conversation starters include:

  • What do you do for work?

  • What brought you to this event?

  • What do you think about the event so far?

  • Are you familiar with any of the speakers?

Your first connection at an event is your gateway to meeting more people. Maybe they came with friends they can introduce you to, or perhaps you'll decide to break into bigger groups together.

Whoever you approach first, relieve some of the awkwardness with informed, relevant conversation starters to get in the swing of things together. Once your first conversation goes smoothly, it’ll give you the confidence to interact with others.

Be Casual and Genuine

Networking is not about getting a quick close but building relationships. The fastest way to do that is by being genuinely likable. Ensure that people walk away from interactions with you feeling positive. Discuss topics that you both enjoy to build rapport. People will want to do business with you mainly because they like you. Often, trust outweighs even the best products.

Approach and Engage

At the event, scan the room for open groups or pairs. The best approach is to join two people who appear open to including someone else. When you meet someone, maintain appropriate eye contact to convey confidence and sincerity.

Utilize your research to engage in meaningful conversations. This is an excellent time for an elevator pitch or to discuss your interest in the company or industry. Ensure you ask questions that encourage the other person to talk about themselves, which can help deepen the connection.

Listen Actively

One of the best ways to get someone to like you is by listening to them. People enjoy talking about themselves and their work. Practice active listening by asking engaging questions about their interests and experiences. Show genuine interest in their stories and insights.

  • Read Broadly: Being well-versed in various topics can help you connect with a wider range of people. Reading about industries outside your immediate focus can provide conversation starters and show your breadth of knowledge.

Mirror Their Body Language

Mirroring body language can help build rapport quickly. Subtly mimic the other person's posture, gestures, and expressions. This non-verbal communication can make them feel more comfortable and connected to you.

Get to the Point

When it’s your turn to share what you do, state it in 2-3 sentences. You can delve into greater detail later, but people will lose interest quickly if you can’t cut to the chase. Avoid using industry jargon. The key to effectively networking is to build rapport, so if someone can’t understand what you’re talking about, a connection won’t happen.

Politely Exit Non-productive Conversations

Not every conversation will be valuable. If you are in a non-productive discussion, listen for a bit, then politely excuse yourself. Spending too long in unproductive conversations can detract from your overall networking effectiveness.

Embrace Discomfort

Networking can be uncomfortable, especially at first. It gets easier with practice, particularly as you start recognizing familiar faces. If you attend an event with someone you know, avoid sticking with them the entire time. Your goal is to broaden your network, which requires engaging with new people.

Take Notes

You probably won’t remember the essential details of every conversation, so it can be helpful to write them down. After mingling with a few people, find a corner of the room to subtly make notes about who they are, what you talked about, and any follow-up you want to do. This will make following up with them much more manageable.

Follow Up Effectively

After the event, follow up with the meaningful connections you made. Connect on LinkedIn or through email, and personalize your message to remind them of your conversation. A thoughtful follow-up can cement the relationship and pave the way for future collaboration.

Conclusion

Networking in the startup world is an ongoing process that demands strategy, effort, and persistence. By setting clear goals, engaging genuinely, leveraging power connections, and avoiding pitfalls, you can build a network that significantly contributes to your entrepreneurial journey. Stay persistent and authentic, and remember: the quality of your connections is more important than the quantity.